Surveys show that a lot of Americans are struggling with economic stress and uncertainty. Some of those hardest hit are suffering from higher prices, little savings, and the fact that they are living paycheck to paycheck. Others, however, are suffering for a different reason. They chased a blinkered image of success: the idea that status and self-worth are derived from flashy cars, expensive jewelry, or a five-bedroom McMansion in a gated community. If you can afford these things, fine. Enjoy them. But if they are a stretch, a struggle, could they really be worth long hours, strained relationships, or your kids continually asking, "Where's Dad?" Life is short and time expended earning a living is, in effect, trading life for cash. We all have an overhead, of course. But what else are you trading your life for? I once heard a customer in a jewelry shop asking the store manager just how accurate the Rolex was that he was considering. "Sir," he answered, "I'm more than happy to tell you about the amazing Swiss craftsmanship that goes into each of these timepieces and how they may become a family heirloom. But, in truth, nothing under this counter keeps time better than the phone in your pocket." This man knew his business. He wasn't selling watches. He was selling luxury, a certain image of success. There's nothing wrong with that. The world is full of desirable things. But some of us have forgotten that the important things in life aren't things at all. And genuine success cannot be measured in dollars and cents. As Bob Dylan once said, "What's money? A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do." "What is success?" asked Ralph Waldo Emerson, "To laugh often and much. To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children. To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends. To appreciate beauty. To find the best in others. To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition. To know even one life breathed easier because you have lived; this is to have succeeded." |
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